Frequently Asked Questions
This page contains Chastity Frequently Asked Questions and Locked Life Shop Frequently Asked Questions.
Chastity Cage FAQ
I've never had a cage before, which one do you recommend?
It can be difficult deciding which cage to buy, we recommend buying a cage which includes a full ring set. We also offer a cage specifically for beginners, which you can find here. When you have had a feel for the chastity cages you can then invest in the best fitting cage by sizing up, down, or choosing different materials or styles which suit your needs.
What is the best chastity cage you offer?
That depends on your preferences. If you're after a more refined, premium cage we recommend you take a look at our Experienced Cages, which you can find here. We offer a wide range of colours and sizes. You can use our Chastity Cage Finder Tool to find a cage suited to you, based on just a few questions.
What size chastity cage should I buy?
Great questions! Our Chastity Cage Size Guide provides a rough estimation of what size cage should fit you best. Our helpful guide takes into account customer feedback and manufacture size guides to create our Chastity Cage Size Guide. Please note that our size chart is a guide and not a guarantee.
How to put on a chastity cage?
We've put together a step by step guide on how to put on a chastity cage.
How do you look after your personal hygiene while using chastity cages?
Keeping your chastity cage and yourself clean is incredibly important. Hygiene is a must in any game of chastity, whether you are using for play, short or long term. Our Chastity & Hygiene blog post has devised a useful list on some ways you can keep your chastity experience clean.
Is using a chastity cage safe and will my penis shrink?
There has been lots of debate about these questions. Generally, wearing a chastity cage is considered as safe as long as precautions are taken such as monitoring irritation, swelling, redness or pain. If this happens take the chastity cage off. You should also ensure hygiene is kept on top of, you can use cleaning time as a chance to check over any issues. Some wearers say they think their penis has gotten smaller since practicing chastity, while others say there has been no change, some also say it made a difference for a few days but then went back to normal. See below a YouTube video where these questions are discussed.
Why do people wear chastity?
This can be different depending on the person and the type of experience people wish to achieve. There is no one-size-fits-all answer for this question as the reason is different for everyone.
People frequently associate chastity to BDSM and kink. People may wish to wear chastity to enhance foreplay, commitment or consensually experiment with relationship dynamics.
Any chastity related activities should take place with consent and having a safe word in place. Always keep spare keys handy in case of emergencies.
Chastity Cages can be used solo or with a partner/s. Wearing a chastity cage for short or long term periods can help the wearer practice self control, limit erections, prevent distraction and more!
How do you pee while wearing a chastity cage?
All our chastity cages have a pee hole, to allow you to urinate. Ensure your chastity cage is well fitted and the pee holes line up right, or you are likely to spray your urine everywhere. You may find it more comfortable to sit while urinating, this should help with any spillages.
Locked Life Shop FAQ
Is shipping discreet?
Yes! All orders are sent in plain, secure packaging. There is no indication of what’s inside your package. You can read more about our discreet shipping here.
Can I Cancel/Change My Order?
Please contact us as soon as possible and we will do our best to accommodate your request. If your order has not been processed we may be able to make changes or cancel your order. Please note that your order may have been processed without you receiving a dispatch email. Unfortunately, once your order has been processed, we may not be able to cancel or make changes.
Can I change my shipping address?
Please contact us as soon as possible and we will do our best to accommodate your request. If your order has not been processed we may be able to change your address. Please note that your order may have been processed without you receiving a dispatch email. Unfortunately, once your order has been processed, we may not be able to make changes.
What will show on my bank statements/PayPal?
We understand that privacy is incredibly important to our customers, so your transaction will show as "LL UK" or "LL Online" on your bank statement and PayPal.
Can I track my order?
Yes and no. We offer two shipping couriers, Royal Mail and Evri.
Royal Mail Tracked 48 and 24 - Once dispatched, you will be assigned a tracking number which provided frequent updates so you are able to track where your parcel is and importantly when its out for delivery.
Evri 2-3 Working Days or 1 Working day - Once dispatched, you will be assigned a tracking number which provides frequent updates so you are able to track where your parcel is and importantly when its out for delivery.
Do you offer a Collection service?
Unfortunately we do not officially offer any collection delivery services.
Some customers report that when they have selected Evri at checkout in addition to redirecting delivery to a Safe place or Preferred neighbour they have been able to redirect their delivery to a local Evri ParcelShop for collection. This service may be subject to change and we can't guarantee this will be available on your order.
Do you offer international delivery?
Not at the present time, however this is something we are working on! Make sure you subscribe to our newsletter to keep up to date with the latest news.